The exception or the rule?

"I don't want to be "sort of dating" someone. I don't want to be "kinda hanging out" with someone. I don't want to spend a lot of energy suppressing my feelings so I appear uninvolved. I want to be involved. I want to be sleeping with someone I know I'll see again because they've already demonstarted to me that they're trustworthy and honorable -- and into me. "

In He's Just Not That Into You by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo

P.S. I wish I was your exception...